24 Lessons I learned in 24 Years of My Life

1)Life is as you see it

Perception is everything!

-If you see life as a series of obstacles, you are bound to feel like a worrier all the time. If you look at life like a series of life-lessons and great experiences, you are surely gonna make it like a warrior. It is upon you how you take your life!

 2) It is never too late!

Age is just a number

-To change something, to adopt something -There is no limit. We can always change and do anything we want at any age without excuses or explanation!

3)It is okay to fail in life sometimes

Failure makes one stronger

-To fail means finding out new ways to approach a difficult situation one more time. Let failure only be defined as another opportunity to discover your hidden ability.

4) If you do the right thing, the right thing will come to you!

Do good, be good, believe in good.

-No matter what people come & say. No matter how bad the time is. No matter what life throws at you. No matter how worst the people act. Always chase for the right thing in the right way.

If you continue to be good, then you will obtain good.

5) Some things are worth being patient for!

Patience is power.

-Never ever underestimate the power of being patient for some things. You may not know what life will bring you in the next moment for every piece of your effort. Always be curious to receive gifts from your long-lasting patience. 

6) Do not underestimate the power of positive expectations. It can do wonders!

Be positive.

-Are you scared if you will perform well in that exam or a meeting or in the upcoming event?

Always be positive in life and experience the power of expecting positive. Being positive always invites miracles and  wonderful life experiences

7)Hard work and patience have a reward!

It all pays off!

-Giving up is easy. To continue working is hard. Always be consistent and determined towards your goals and ideas. Work really hard! You might not realize it at that moment, but each day counts and every effort you put is worth it at the end! Even if it means taking a small step every day, go for it!

8)You are allowed to leave a place, a person or an act that does not serve you peace, happiness and love.

Exit, where nothing is served to you.

-Do not live a forced life where you are busy pleasing people, making attempts to justify people and constantly being a part of the dangerous loop. Whoever wants to be with you will always stay. Whatever is meant to be will happen. Know your worth be your best version where you are respected and loved enough by you and others.

9)To have more friends is not important. To have one true friend is.

Have less but best.

-When you count friends, do not forget to consider friends that have been with you through everything and not someone who simply pretends to be one. Keep your eyes, heart and mind open to realize who are your real and true friends. Not everyone who says they are your friend is your friend.

10)We as a human have no limits, we are only afraid to face some situations.

 Be limitless

-Always remember, there are no fears, only minutes which needs to be spent as adventures. One thing that I learned in life and works for me as one of the most powerful messages in every terrible moment is- Be Fearless! If something scares you, attempt to face it! It will not be easy, but it will surely surprise you! Fly, swim, float, run, explore – it’s your life- do whatever you want with no limits!

11)Complex problems do have simple solutions.

Simplify everything.

-Problems are not the root cause of stress. The difficulty in life begins when we start to complicate things with worry and overthinking. Stop feeding attention to your problems and see them vanishing.

12)Make a decision. Do not delay it.

 Stick to your choice.

-When you can decide it, you can do it. You can fight it. You can start it. You can enjoy it. Make a decision to implement and not to see it getting expired.

13) Peace is everywhere. If you know how to find it, you can enjoy it even during most chaotic moments too.

Stop being full of chaos.

-Be mindful and at peace. It is easy to freak out than to be calm while facing any situation. Surround yourself with people who feed you good thoughts and untangles life's problem. Be so much full of harmonious vibes, that they can't kill your vibe!

14)It is your life; other's ideology may not work in your case.

A comparison can punish you at times.

-If there is something to decide, something to implement- Look at your inner strength and check if it allows you to do it. Do not be in a rush to join a place just because someone else went for it too. Understand your need and capability, value yourself and apply your logic to your situation. Nobody knows you better than you.

15) A family will always be there for you.

Love of family is unconditional.

-There is no true or pure love than the one that our family gives. A family is forever and is an invisible ray of strength in our hard times.

16) You do not need another person to make you feel extremely happy. Look in the mirror, that person can do it for you alone.

Let no other human define happiness for you

-After all, it is your life. Stop admiring another person's life goal or looking for validation. You carry within yourself all the happiness that you need.

17) When there is no one, be your own cheerleader!

Go YOU!

-Some moments come in life to make you feel disheartened. In such moments be the most enthusiastic one for yourself. Because if not you, then who else will do it for you?

18)Self-love is the most important thing in life

Love yourself- deeply, madly, passionately!

-There is a thin line between being self-obsessed and enjoying self-love. If you hate or dislike some parts of you, some characteristic of you, respect that. Not all are same, we all are different from each other and that’s what makes us who we are. Don’t lose your identity for anyone else, love your weakest parts, your scars, forgive yourself and take time to heal every wound.  Master the art of loving yourself!

19) Sticking to your passion may not always give you money but can always offer you priceless peace and happiness.

Passion is a whole lot thing!

- Passion means everything. It is meaningful, it is the creator of happiness in one's life. When we choose our passion, we choose the best form of our life.

20)Life is all about ups & downs. An upward direction is not always guaranteed.

It’s a roller coaster ride my friend!

-Life will not be fair if it only gives you sweet fruits and no bitter lessons. Move in the right direction with all your strength, faith and beliefs, you will surely embrace the journey even if it’s a get a little down

21) Do not let the kid in you, die!

Jump often, laugh enough, enjoy life!

-Cry on things that make you cry, express love for little things. If you be an adult and try to solve your life, it will sit on you heavily.

22)Life is divided into phases. Fortunately, you get to live, enjoy and suffer through all!

Live a life you wish to build

-If you continue to see life as a rigid life schedule-starting from- school, college, job, marriage, kids, retirement and ending at death, instead of a roller coaster fun ride of happiness, sorrow, achievements, failures, celebrations and moments. You must know what you are missing at large!

23) Never stop exploring life

 You are not a tree with roots! MOVE!

-If you stick to one thing, one person it won't always work!

Be energetic, enthusiastic, take enough breaks but never stop exploring life. Life is a beautiful gift, why waste it in living the same life every day.

24)If you follow your heart, conquering life becomes easy.

Wherever you go, go with all your heart!

-This one is the easiest one to do and most difficult to attempt at times. The bravest and the best thing you can do for yourself is going wherever your heart goes. Always, follow your heart.